Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Book Review Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Perel shares her amazement about how much people are willing to experiment sexually while they are single or outside of their relationship parameters. She mocks the often puritanical...
Who’s Responsible for My Arousal?

Who’s Responsible for My Arousal?

Who’s Responsible for My Arousal? When your partner isn’t showing up sexually the way you’d like…  blame, shame, or get up and create change from within? For most of my experience with sexual partners, they’ve largely ignored both my arousal and my...
Flogging: For Introspection and Catharsis

Flogging: For Introspection and Catharsis

Flogging: For Introspection and Catharsis BDSM Explained The inner psychology of being “hit” for the pleasure of the recipient The first time I visited a “dungeon” at a sex-positive party, I was a bit surprised to see people tied up, spanked, and flogged,...
Somatic Coaching: For the Body and Soul

Somatic Coaching: For the Body and Soul

Somatic Coaching: For the Body and Soul Tales from a Session: A woman seeking respite from anxiety and early-development trauma Somatic literally means, of the body. Many therapeutic experiences rely on verbal processing or education only. At the Somatica Institute, I...
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Ph.D.

The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Ph.D.

The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Ph.D. Book Review The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Ph.D. Morin talks about the goal of being a “self-actualizer.” This is a person who is comfortable with his or her self, is relatively free of the constriction of past conflicts, and who...